Thursday, December 23, 2010
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Monday, October 18, 2010
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Monday, June 7, 2010
Monday, May 24, 2010
Friday, May 14, 2010
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
I was sad, and broken hearted, and my heart was grasped by pain,
I did not know how to break free, though I tried again and again.
As time passed I thought my pain would lessen and I could forgive,
But it took so long, time seemed to crawl and I barely managed to live.
And then this pain faded away as another took its place,
A more urgent need, a pressing pain clamouring for space.
I gave it rein, and let it work its way into my heart,
I dealt with death and the past as my father did depart.
I chose to put my prior pain aside and open up my soul,
I hoped to deal with the past and slowly become whole.
It seemed to happen, in smallish starts I felt my pain diminish,
And yet the healing and restoration never really finished.
My heart still broken, my soul burdened, my body felt defeat,
I spiralled down into a state of not being able to eat.
As days passed by I had fewer options and finally just the one,
And so it was that for me the unthinkable was done.
I lay on the table asleep with parts of me cut away and seized,
They removed the parts in me that were useless and diseased.
And yet I knew my heart and soul, my very inner being,
Also had parts that needed pruning and mending and healing.
As I mended you came to me, your hand reached out to mine,
I felt the love and the care, I knew we would be fine.
There was no need for words and lengthy recriminations,
I felt the love, forgiveness flowed, without explanations.
A burden fell away from me, I felt freedom anew,
All heaviness was gone, my heart felt like it flew.
And from that day we began again, you and I, my friend,
And so I hope to continue until the very end.
Words caused my heart to break, and pain flooded in,
Silence then mended it back again and joy dwells within.
I chose to forgive, I released my hurt and pain,
And in so doing I have found my friend again.
My prayer is that all will be well and friendship eternal be,
Despite the troubles and the woes of life for you and for me.
Pavitar Kaur Gill
Friday, May 7, 2010
I sliced you in half, but you did not resist,
My knife slicing through you in one swift twist.
I lovingly buttered you, covered you in jam and cream,
Throughout all this you did not scream.
I bit into you and then it began,
You trembled, you crumbled, the drippy jam ran.
I munched and as I did, I thought,
There's nothing quite like a scone well bought.
Pavitar Kaur Gill
Who had scones after a long time, with SJ at Fosters, in Holland V,
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of Children."
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Grief came one day to visit me
He came quite uninvited.
So sudden and swift was he
I was completely unprepared.
Grief only comes for long stays
So he brings a big bag along;
Once opened up he displays
The many parts of his grief song.
First comes denial, full of disbelief,
Engulfing my heart and brain;
How does one begin to seek relief
While numbness hides the pain.
Anger comes fast upon denial’s heels
Now numb no longer but wounds bleed;
Why now, why me, why do I have to feel,
Tears flow and thoughts swim without heed.
If I just hadn’t said this, if only I hadn’t done that
Regret and sadness mingle with anger’s chorus;
While bargaining makes an entrance next
Desperate to understand things between us.
And just when it feels like I’ve cried all my tears
Depression follows with deep pain and sorrow;
The wounds of the soul gaping bare amidst fears
That I’ll always feel this way tomorrow.
Somewhere along the way comes the end
Where quietly grief ends his drawn out song;
Acceptance is the stage where I can mend,
I wait in tears; don’t let it be long.
Then grief will pack up and leave my soul
And I will stay and carry on,
Patched and mended, once more whole,
And hopefully a lot less forlorn.
Pavitar Kaur Gill
My friend Pauline Tan sent me this in reply to my poem on Grief (25th Feb)
Let not grief overstay his welcome
Take him firmly and show him the door
And while he stays let him make himself useful
Let his grief song make you something more
May the pain you endure illumine your heart
And show you visions you’ll never otherwise see
Though Grief may gnaw and bring you tears
Its servant you shall never be
In the turmoil and storm which Grief brings
Your feelings shout you are indeed alive
The denial, anger, regret and depression
Are but varied fashions of the cross
For strangely those whom He loves best of all
Also share most closely His pain
This is the paradox of being his beloved
For us to live is Christ, to die is gain.
I went again to see my doctor
As I was feeling rather ill,
I wasn’t quite excited about it
I went fighting against my will.
I’m back again with my chronic ailment
And I need more meds to get by,
I don’t know why I’m feeling torment
When I see my doctor I realize why.
Here’s a man who has no time for me
His every moment filled with stress,
I see the many patients he has to see
The time for me is so much less.
Why do I say I am doing fine
When my heart is full of grief,
I do not tell of the pain that’s mine
Just to see his look of relief.
And so I rush because I feel so rushed
And do not say what’s on my heart,
I want to gush but end up shushed
I leave out the real “Me” part.
“How are you, doctor, you look well,
Yes, it’s been a while”.
I say this as I really do care
It’s said with a little smile.
When he speaks it’s clear to see
He’s tired, overworked , almost sullen.
One wonders if it’s just for me
Or does this happen with everyone.
Sometimes the doctor tells a story
Of his own struggles and woes,
And for a moment there’s beauty
In the meeting of two souls.
How nice to share our burdens
To see each other as human beings,
But such is not the lot of patients
For whom doctors are super beings.
For unto him who holds all knowledge
Is given the power over me,
And if this inequity I do acknowledge
Such a lasting hold has he.
“You are to be told and you must hear
You do not know enough to judge,
I have no time for your every tear
I am too busy, I do too much.”
And so I bite my tongue and hold my thoughts
And when I leave I feel empty and yet full,
Bursting with tears unshed, with sorrow fraught
Wishing he cared, feeling like a fool.
Does it matter that my doctor care?
Do I need a human touch?
I get my meds each time I go there
Surely I musn’t ask too much.
And yet I know for sure my healing
Is not to body only bound
For I am more than just bodily being
In it are soul and spirit found.
When I find a doctor who understands
The varied needs that I do bring
I daresay I will grasp his hands
And never let him go for anything.
Pavitar Kaur Gill
Patients Aplenty and Patience Scarce
Another day at the clinic,
Another day with patients galore.
Another day of feeling melancholic,
I can hardly take any more.
All day they troop into my room
Each and every one;
Wanting me to dispel their gloom
Me, a mere human.
I ask for symptoms to understand
What they are going through,
And hopefully I can recommend
Some action to help them too.
I get a story long and grey
Winding all about,
I lose myself along the way
Trying to sieve sense out.
Finally I think I see what’s there,
I say what I believe is true.
I tell what’s honest, right and fair,
I tell them what to do.
But doctor, can I ask something,
Are you sure that this is so?
I read online there’s other things
That can work as well, you know.
Aromatherapy and ayurvedic,
Herbal remedies and acupuncture
Doctor, you’re very allopathic
Perhaps for that there is a cure?
I’m not sure why my patient wonders
If I know these cures to be a remedy;
I went to med school for six long years
He's just been online for three.
The internet has helped them know
But wise they are not yet;
And I must be their spring board
For all the quack ideas they get.
And when I say I do not know
They give me looks of disbelief;
Then take the meds I give them
And often find relief.
I try to listen to their many troubles,
But woes aplenty I have also.
They do not seem to sense my struggles,
I do not think they care to know.
For why would they when the duty’s mine
And they pay a fee for my advice;
Their money’s worth is all and fine
And that for them will suffice.
And just as well that this is so
For so many, many a day do I see;
And torn and tired would I grow
If each of them wanted more of me.
For to whom should I give something more
And to whom should I give much less?
For each ought to be the same as the one before
None of them a prince or princess.
Yet there are the ones who think that doctors
Have far more time than we do,
Who want, nay demand, special favours
Imagining themselves to be who’s who.
I know so and so, my father’s friend,
My husband’s uncle's niece,
And if you don’t give me time without end
I’ll write a long, nasty piece.
The looming threat of malpractice suits,
The nasty complaint letter;
These are possibilities, rotten fruits,
Perhaps another career would’ve been better?
And so I tip-toe around the patients
Trying to remember my first love;
When medicine was my passion
And I thought that I could serve.
So dear patient if I appear quiet
And I seem in an awful hurry,
Do not think it is you whom I hurt
For it is I who must worry.
For with patients aplenty and patience scarce
I am losing myself in a haze,
Of patients rushing through my door in a farce
And myself left in a daze.
Such it will be until the system improves,
So patients do learn to wait,
Doctors must hang on to their dreams
And hope it won’t be too late.
Pavitar Kaur Gill
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH
When the going gets tough, the tough get going,
but no one ever says where.
Where the tough are going do they know
If they will find their rest there?
Does it matter if one knows the destination?
It's the journey everyone speaks volumes about.
But how long can one keep going on blindly
Till one's heart and mind fill with doubt?
Hope, it is said beats in their heart
As they fight the good fight each day.
Something unseen, untouched and yet felt,
Unless we send it away.
Amidst the tears, the fears, the pain of life
Hope calls out to say don't quit
Don't lose the war, the battles do count
Take my hand, we'll finish it.
Pavitar Kaur Gill
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Monday, April 12, 2010
Two nights ago, (9th April) was the 8th week marker for me. 8 weeks post surgery on the Road to Recovery. I had been thinking about writing in my blog about my experience, and what it meant to me, but somehow I never got around to putting my many thoughts down. An old friend hoped to read about my post-op reflections, and well, I can’t disappoint a friend can I? And I do so love an audience J Here’s to you, Puni, and thanks for wanting to know!
In my last blog post I wrote about the events leading up to surgery. While the doctors pored over CT and XRay films I did my own pre-op prep. I had a haircut and waited as patiently as I could for my doc to announce the day. My heart leapt in excitement when he came by and told me all systems were go for 12th Feb. I had never felt so ready for that day. Finally!
I could barely wait. I was excited and also anxious, but more excited really. The same way I felt when I happily and cheerfully went off to have my first baby in May 1996. Having read all about it I had no clue what was in store for me, really. Just a lot of theory and no experience. I woke up early on the 12th feeling a sense of anticipation. I was told I was scheduled to be wheeled away at about 6pm, and the hours seemed to wear on.
An Aunt, Kay, came to spend time with me and to pray with me in the evening. I was very encouraged by the prayer, and I felt comforted. In fact, I felt myself drift away to a very quiet and calm place, and a peace descended on my soul. It was a truly supernatural experience for me. I was grateful for her company and her taking the time to spend about 6 hours with me, and later with my husband, while I was in surgery.
I remember being worried about what Kay and my husband would have for dinner that night while I was in surgery, and so I helped plan a really nice dinner for them. My husband had treated me to a VIP suite at a private hospital, and the menu was simply quite amazing, if one could actually eat any of it. So after consulting Kay I ordered French Onion Soup and Caesar’s Salad as entrees, and Chicken Nasi Briyani and Beef Fillet Steak for mains, Chocolate Cake and Apple Pie for dessert, and juices and tea for drinks. I was so happy that they were going to be well taken of food wise in my absence. Strange as it may seem, it gave me pleasure to know that they would be eating a hearty meal, and indeed it was very hearty!
I was in the shower when suddenly my gastro consultant came by to see me. He was leaving for Chinese New Year holidays overseas, and I was to be left in the capable hands of the surgeon, the anesthetist and the pain management team, all of whom I had met before. I rushed out to speak to him and he prayed for me too. I was deeply appreciative of his prayer. We said our goodbyes, and I told him that by the time he got back a few days later I would be running about the wards, and he’d never guess I’d had surgery. J
They came to get me early, and popped a dormicum in my hand with literally 2 sips of water in a tiny little cup. My stomach had to remain empty for surgery, but two tiny sips were okay. The dormicum was to keep me calm and help me sleep. We left the room, hubby and Kay trooping along, with me on the bed in a blue gown feeling a little naked, but happily covered in a thick white blanket. As I was being wheeled away I looked up at the ceiling lights, and thought of how in the movies they always flash by so fast. They didn’t flash by in my case as I wasn’t being rushed anywhere, and my life didn’t flash before my eyes either. I made a joke or two, kept up a smile, and tried to make eye contact with the orderly pulling my bed along, but he remained rather aloof. Must be too many patients a day to care for anyone in particular, I guess. As we reached the “No Entry” doors, I said my quick goodbyes, told hubby and Kay I would be fine, squeezed their hands and vanished as the doors closed behind me. I was glad they would have a nice dinner together but my eyes filled with tears and I was embarrassed because finally, yes, finally, the orderly looked me in the eye, but his look was so vacant I sobered up immediately, not wanting to be thought of as a baby or worse, a drama mama J.
I was wheeled to a corridor in front of yet another set of big doors which were open, and beyond were the actual operating theaters. Someone approached me and then asked me the usual questions…name, IC number, do I have dentures etc. The sort of questions they ask you almost everywhere else in the hospital ad nauseum . And then it happened…I floated away. I was completely and utterly gone. I have no idea of what happened to me after that until I woke up 4 hours later.
The surgeon had toyed with the idea of parking me in the ICU for the night for close surveillance, but after the surgery he decided I didn’t need it and I was sent back to my room where my husband and Kay were waiting. It was now past 10pm, and the surgery had taken longer than expected. I remember opening my eyes and seeing them there, and thanking them and then I drifted away in a morphine daze.
The morphine helped with pain, but made me nauseous the next day. I tried to manage with less, but it was painful. I tried switching to pethidine, but that also affected me. I had never taken these powerful drugs, so I was completely naïve to them. In the end I managed with very little morphine for a couple of days, and then switched to panadol suppositories which helped a lot with far less side effects. The net effect of going off morphine early is that my guts got going earlier, I was less nauseous, I walked by the second day, and I felt better overall. I could manage the pain, though sometimes it was tough. The morphine also gave me weird dreams and I never felt rested. How could I when I was with McGyver in a science fiction movie, running across open fields and swimming with whales in the ocean? I was exhausted!
My hubby later told me that as he was driving home that first night he met the surgeon in the hospital carpark, and so they had a short chat during which he said that they had removed my appendix, my gallbladder and about 30 cm of small intestine, a lot more that we had earlier anticipated. Apparently there were 3 more strictures forming and I would have been back for surgery sooner than later if he hadn’t taken them out. I was rather shocked by the 30 cms, but I have come to accept it now as something that needed to be done.
As I had been lying in bed for so long prior to surgery, due to being hooked up to so many tubes, my muscles had become weak, and so when I began my first walk on the second day post-op I was exhausted by a short stroll. The nurses had to help me as I had a catheter and urine bag, a drip for meds, another line for liquid feeding (TNP), a tube and bottles for wound drainage and a very sore wound. Basically I clanked about the ward like some Frankensteinian creation…I scared myself!
I did pause and glare for dramatic effect at some visitors next door who seemed to think nothing of standing outside my closed door talking at the top of their voices, and crowding around the doorway of their VIP patient, the Governor of some SEA country…it was so rude and so annoying. My glare and my state was enough to scare some of them…they behaved much better afterwards. J
I waited in anticipation of tubes being removed and the first one to go was the naso-gastric tube, a very annoying tube shoved down my nose and into my stomach to help drain liquids. Green hideous stuff came out every now and then and phlegm too because it is common to have some post-op. I hated that tube because my nose got sore, my throat hurt from it, and the hideous, bilious liquids nauseated me every time the nurses came to suction the bag and empty it.
My surgeon came by and on the 3rd day decided to remove it much to my joy. I wanted the nurses to do it gently, but he said no need, he would do it, and in 2 quick pulls it was out, much to my relief. It was painlessly removed and I began to feel a little less like a freak show.
Later that day the catheter came out and I was relieved because I had a feeling that my bladder had been bursting for days, but the nurses said that my liquid input was equal to liquid output and so I was doing fine. I was tormented by lower back pain because of this full feeling, and when the catheter came out I was so glad to be off to the toilet even though it meant a lot more walking. The nurses were worried whether I would be able to pee again after the catheter…but I had no problems at all. Apparently some patients do have trouble and it takes them a while to readjust. I was relieved I was able to do it and didn’t need a bedpan or anything like that.
Eventually the central catheter line inserted into my vein had to come out as I no longer needed liquid feeding and was on clear soups. Later my wound drainage tubes would come out too, the last of my tubes. All of these were removed painlessly which amazed me because I had been under either local or general anesthesia when they had been inserted! I was relieved to be finally free of tubes and able to move more freely, but that only happened around day 6 post-op.
I recognized in myself a strong streak of independence that I had seen in my maternal Grandma who till her last days insisted on bathing herself and cooking for herself. I, too, valued my independence and found it hard to receive help from the nurses. Prior to surgery I insisted on bathing myself even though the nurses offered to help because they worried I was weak. I let them plastic wrap my left arm to keep it dry, but managed showering and hair washing myself, and I felt a sense of accomplishment every time. What tiny shreds of dignity I had left I held on to…
Post-op it was too much for me to manage a shower, and I wasn’t expected to either for the first few days. A nurse came by to offer me a wipe wash on the 3rd day, and so we navigated tubes and drip stands, the changing of the gowns, hair and teeth brushing and basically I started looking and feeling human again. Not being on morphine too much helped tremendously. The surgeon and the nurses remarked that I was doing very well, and I felt better with each passing day. I walked more each day around the ward, I glared a lot less at noisy neighbours J , I managed a walk on day 6 post-op to the hospital gardens all by myself, having done 9 rounds of the ward the day before and getting rather bored and feeling trapped.
I did not start eating till a few days after surgery, and even then I began with clear soup, and then plain porridge and some tea in the morning. My fantasy then was to have chee cheong fun, a nice yummy soft plain rice noodle dish with plum sauce, and the first time my doctor allowed me to have it…it tasted like heaven! My first real meal in over 50 days. I had it for breakfast and lunch even after I left the hospital…J I found though that immediately post-op I was not in a hurry to eat until the effects of the morphine left me completely. My surgeon was keen on testing my system, but I was reluctant and so began with clear soups for a couple of days first, culminating in chee cheong fun upon discharge from hospital.
One of the funniest things about being a gastro patient post surgery is that the surgeon was literally obsessed with whether I had passed gas…this passing of gas is the sign that the system is working. Everyday he would ask me if I had passed gas, and then the nurses asked me questions too…what colour and texture is the stool, what quantity, did you collect urine for measurement, any gas yet? A myriad of questions for me throughout the whole day. I felt like a sick baby…minus the diapers!
These sorts of things can dehumanize and can embarrass a patient, but for many patients with IBD, these issues are commonplace. They are part and parcel of everyone’s lives, just maybe a bit more so in ours. And so it was a happy occasion when gas was passed, and it was duly noted in my file, and reported back to my surgeon who was ever so pleased though he wanted to know if the nurses had heard it…fortunately on one occasion a nurse was there. Sigh. I found myself beyond embarrassment with these lovely nurses who laughed along with me and seemed to enjoy my jokes. I told them they were lovely nurses, they said I was a lovely patient… and so we all got along nicely.
I eventually overcame my embarrassment at needing help to manage a shower. I was taped and plastic wrapped in strategic places, and then I managed to shower myself but needed help getting dried and dressed. I made jokes about my lack of shapeliness, and how all the nurses looked so slim, and of course we happily blamed the four kids for my loss. Through much laughter we made our way through the embarrassing moments. Embarrassing for me but not for the nurses…they have seen it all.
There was one night nurse of whom I became very fond and I shall never forget her. She was from China, and we were able to communicate quite well. She laughed at my pathetic Mandarin, and she had a son in China, so we had a few chats about life. She saw me through a rough night, in fact the Night of the Passing of the Gas…that fateful night my digestive system woke up and the bile in my system had nowhere to go as I no longer had a gallbladder to store it and for some reason I kept having to go to the toilet.
I would ring the bell for help, she would come running, help me sit up, unplug my drips stand, wheel it and help me to the toilet, come back when I called, and she would help wash and clean me up. I just couldn’t manage doing it myself because my abdominal wound didn’t allow me to move too much. And so we formed a pattern and made many trips one night…possibly even 10 trips. She never complained, she was very kind, she helped me get over my embarrassment at requiring help, and we made a decent team.
I did break down when I was alone though…I felt overwhelmed by everything. By the big wound that seemed so scary I didn’t dare look at it, by the 4 small laparoscopic wounds that hurt but seemed tiny in comparison, by the need to ask for help for things I had always managed myself, by the loss of my dignity and privacy, by the feeling that at 42 I felt like an 80 year old invalid, by the invasion into my life of medical staff, medical procedures, by the removal of bits and parts of me, by the fear that the disease would come back and all of this would be in vain…I broke down briefly and let myself cry. But not for long. I knew deep down that what was done was done, and it was for the best. Someday soon I would eat again. Someday soon I would be normal again even if I always had scars and parts of me were gone. The essence of me would remain, or so I hoped.
But the essence of me became frail and fragile. I do not know if it is due to the surgery or the starvation prior to it or a combination of both ranging over almost 3 months…starvation, surgery, recovery. It has taken me 3 months to feel less frail. I remember desperately wanting to be discharged from hospital despite having a low grade fever…I was allowed home and would return in a few days for a check up. I desperately missed my 4 kids, and had their photos in my hospital room, and I really needed to go home to them. When I went home I felt like I was back where I belonged. It was wonderful…but after a few hours reality set in that I was on my own with a wound that was still rather fresh, 9 days old, and I didn’t know if I could bathe myself or manage the kids, and I didn’t have the nurses to help me…and I did have a mini collapse! Again, I was overwhelmed. The rest of the family left me alone to rest…but I had difficulty getting up on my own, reaching for my stuff hurt, and just the trip home had exhausted me beyond words. I was reluctant to trouble anyone, but at the same time I needed help, and on some level I was even annoyed that no one realized this… then I told myself that mine was the first experience in the family, and if I needed help I would have to spell it out clearly.
And so I did a better job at communicating my needs and getting the help I needed, and everyone was so helpful that I managed to manage…and as the weeks passed I felt stronger and stronger. My husband and the children were so kind and helpful that I was overwhelmed, not by my situation or sadness, or fear or anything except gratitude at their attitude. I asked for help and received it, and many, many times I was blessed even without my asking. At the same time, I had a network of close family and friends praying for me and I updated them daily. I was amazed at the dedication of many who kept me in prayer and in their thoughts. It made a tremendous difference to me, and to my recovery. I was told it would take 6-8 weeks to recover fully, and at 8 weeks now I can safely say I do feel quite recovered.
Physically, I feel better and the wound has healed well despite requiring two squeezing sessions with the surgeon because of fluid accumulation and slight swelling. (It’s an agony being squeezed…but very necessary to avoid infection). Emotionally, I feel better too…I can look at my wound and not feel tearful and fearful as I have earlier on. I remember thinking that I had been violated in some way…a hole made into me and things taken out. How awful the thought had been, and my knees would literally go weak at the thought of it. Now I am no longer upset by it. It is there, that’s all.
In the early weeks after surgery I remember thinking I had been silly to have been so excited about surgery, because in reality it hurt like nothing I had felt before. Even childbirth without pain relief had seemed easier to me. But as with childbirth, the pain of the post-op road to recovery tends to fade with time. If we never forget physical pain, women would never have more than one child. People would never have more than one surgery. I think that if I had to go through it all again I would be less excited but more emotionally prepared, and certainly much more aware of what to expect.
I am hoping never to need surgery again. I can now eat fairly normally, and have begun immuno-suppressant medications to keep me in remission and prevent recurrence of the Crohn’s. I do hope it works and I don’t ever need to starve again or be opened up on an operating table again. I live with side effects from the meds, and they can be depressing, but I am hoping to get used to them, and have a better quality of life, and a sense of normalcy that is more in line with the rest of the family’s, and to be able to live and do all the things I want to do. I am battling the flu now because my immune system is compromised and I catch bugs so much more easily, but I do think I will recover soon and feel better. I live in hope!
At my last appointment with my surgeon, when he said to see him in 6 months unless something cropped up earlier, I realized that I was well and truly discharged from his care. He said something to me as he looked into my eyes. He said that I had done very well through what had been a very difficult time, and a dangerous surgery. As I look back on all that has happened I realize that I have indeed done well. I have survived something dangerous and difficult and I have come out stronger. I feel it, now, at 8 weeks post-op more than ever since the surgery.
I know that I made it with the help of great healthcare professionals and the prayers and love of my family and many friends. I was very uplifted through it all, even in my darkest moments I have not felt abandoned. I am grateful to God for His care and the many manifestations of His love I have seen in the people in my life. My faith is stronger, my hope is greater, my heart is overwhelmed with gratitude. I am well and truly blessed.
Thanks for reading!